What should you do if you have lost most of the money in share market?

What should you do if you have lost most of the money in share market?

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Hello reader, I want to tell you my story so this is not a blog but I story about my losses in share market. Friends I trade in Bitcoin as well as stock Market option trading specially. 

I have been doing it since 2019 and up to the date I have lost $200000. This much money I have lost and this is not the issue of loss but an issue of earning. Friends I earn a little and I spent a lot of time earning money and this money I lost time by time. 

Friends when I started writing blogs and doing other stuffs and earning enough for me and my family but someday my relative sad that there is a share market kind of thing. He told me that anyone in the market can earn money and it has a lot of potential to give you. 

At that time I was having very little or no knowledge about share market or stock market and what the trading actually is. But after sometime I started thinking about it and one day I bought some shares in delivery there. Those were railway shares and they give a little profit to me but with that little profit the journey of my trading started. 

At that time I used to work on many websites and freelancing that time Quora was also giving money to write content for them and I was a part of it. I was earning enough for my family but I choose to earn more without doing any hard work. That time I thought that if I continue write and do this tough then it will take more time and give less income but I did not think that it is only giving not taking like share market.

I was earning good but due to some greedy mind or I would say a choice of note to do work and earn a handsome money for that thing I started doing share market from that day friends I am losing and today is the day I lost all my capital and I have negative thoughts. I have took money from my friends and lost it in the share market in option trading in derivatives. 

Today I am feeling so hopeless and I do not want to tell anybody that I have lost so much money in the market. Friends I have one kid and a beautiful wife at my home but I do not want to tell them or to confess them that I have nothing. In this days I have not purchased any cloth for me or a pair of shoes for me. We are eating food like beggars like no good family eat but I kept losing all my money in market rather than providing healthy mail to my family and new clothes. 

Friends I know some of you might think that this money is not so much. But this money is a lot for a person like me who is earning already very less and then if I lose this kind of money it is my hard earned money. So it is a big amount for me. So friends today I want to tell you I have joined many courses and I have learnt many candlestick pattern sometimes they work also so I earn a little bit but when I am the next day I lose the profit of yesterday also. 

Some of my friends were saying that you are not disciplined enough to save your profit so I started using stop loss and after taking stop loss I have lost again. Many charges and the brokerage have broken my spine. So I decided to write about my losses. There are many charming videos and there are many live coaches which provide you guidance but believe me there is nothing which they can make you earn. 

90% of the traders are in loss and persons who are earning which are in 10% of the profitable traders also there are 6% of the traders who are earning less than 1000 USD in a month and the rest for percent are earning the whole money. So this is an advice from me that if you are earning less then you should not go for trading and stock market kind of thing it will rein you definitely. I am crying writing this I don't know if I am writing this correctly or is it something else which I have made. 

If I would have continued the form of writing blogs then I must have a good life and also a peaceful life. Due to loses in share market I have lost my testosterone also. Now a days I don't feel like having relationship with my wife. I keep thinking about the losses and how to cover them and I continue take in loses. Whenever somebody call me somebody ask me to do any favour to do any task I become very irritated and I also have temper issues due to share market. 

I don't know if you are influenced with the coaches who teach share market thing but I am the one who is telling you about the losses. Most of us are influenced by the YouTube per or a person posting a screenshot on social media about his profits and we are going after him like sheep. That thing will result into use losses I must say. Here I don't want to tell any data or take any statistical information as I just want to write about my internal issues so that I can have some good mental health. 

If it can be useful for someone if one of you get inspired by this and leave the social media kind of thing which is harmful than cocaine and which is very addictive than cocaine the purpose of this writing will be fulfilled. I must say leave social media with share market pages and accounts. Earn less but eat with your family with no debt and no borrowing from others. Live happy life and if you are not trading in share market do not try it ever. Thank you for reading this much. Forgive me for my grammatical mistakes and go on my feelings.